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“10,000 homeless veterans could be left without housing”

Feb18
2011 2 Comments Written by Aaron Reddin

The following is an email that I received yesterday from the National Coalition for Homeless Veterans.  It’s worth a look if you give a rip about veterans, homelessness or politics. 

What I want to know is how many of these House voters touted their “patriotism” in their campaigning, only to turn around and screw those who have given just about all they had….

House Set to Eliminate HUD-VASH Vouchers
10,000 homeless veterans could be left without housing

WASHINGTON, Feb. 17, 2011 – The U.S. House of Representatives is currently considering H.R. 1, the Full-Year Continuing Appropriations Act of 2011, which would eliminate $75 million for approximately 10,000 new permanent supportive housing vouchers for homeless veterans.

These HUD-VA Supportive Housing (VASH) vouchers represent a collaboration between the Departments of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) and Veterans Affairs (VA) to help chronically ill veterans who are not able to obtain and maintain housing without assistance. A vote on this bill is expected by the end of the day.

The vouchers in question were approved by both the House and Senate Appropriations Committees in the 111th Congress, and would bring the HUD-VASH program to the 40,000 voucher level. That would represent two-thirds of the number of vouchers most experts and federal officials agree are needed to end chronic veteran homelessness.

This morning at a House Committee on Veterans’ Affairs hearing, Ranking Member Bob Filner (D-CA) expressed shock over the elimination of these vouchers, which would provide housing and services to approximately 10,000 veterans who are homeless today.

Committee Chairman Jeff Miller (R-FL) said he was less concerned about the cuts because he has been told about 11,000 of the 30,000 vouchers authorized since 2008 are not yet being used.

The VASH program is one of the most critical elements of the Federal Strategic Plan to Prevent and End Homelessness among veterans by 2015. Last year, HUD Secretary Shaun Donovan told Congress that a total of 60,000 vouchers would be needed to end veteran homelessness.

VA had included funding for program expansion in its FY 2011 budget, and the Senate Appropriations Committee inserted funding for 10,000 new vouchers in its HUD funding bill. Both actions spurred hope that the number of homeless veterans – estimated at 107,000 – would continue to decline.

The National Coalition for Homeless Veterans (NCHV) urges all homeless veteran service providers to contact their senators and representatives this afternoon to strongly object to any move that would eliminate approved HUD-VASH program funding for new vouchers.

To contact your representative, click here.

To contact your senator, click here.

You may also call the U.S. Capitol Switchboard at (202) 224-3121 and ask for your representative or senator’s office.

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And He Didn’t Ask for More Church Services to Prove It….

Jan01
2011 1 Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

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Confessions of the Currently De-Churched

Dec06
2010 6 Comments Written by Aaron Reddin

The following is an email that one of my friends sent me the other day.  It wasn’t written to be read or discussed publicly, but once I finished it, I knew it had to be.  I told him that I would publish it anonymously. 

Church people often struggle to understand the “de-churched”.  Even though the “de-churched” make up a significant part of today’s Church, they are often overlooked and have their entire faith questioned.  You can’t deny it happens.  But, is it right? Read what my friend has to say…..

wow, it’s every where and no one can or wants to see it, or is in complete denial, it works well with most humans in the community of faith, woe unto us who see the reality of homelessness, mental health issues, drug and alcohol abuse, pornography; issues of morality at one time were real social issues of great importance to the church and people of faith, proving people do change with the times, even people who go to church, pretty much 100 percent of all the stuff Jesus did or said on the aforementioned subjects was so clear it’s blinding, although they do have some damn fine and impressive debt free facilities and do give gas cards in lieu of not giving contributions for needed actions that will help people. Pretty simple things that save peoples lives. What’s a life going for these days on the open market? Churches are in my less than sane opinion and worldly view personal experience a religious world created system of theistic beliefs, bureaucracies run by people locked inside a psychological mind set of a world that exist mostly within the four walls of the buildings, or humongous campuses built with cash as Earthly altars to God, of course God is money, so it makes sense. God by the way told me He could care less about your balance sheets or donations being down year to year, that’s an excuse. I respect some people want to stay tucked away from the scary world full of “those people” so they run to the suburbs and buy a ton of Glocks, then they give money to over seas missions and such, they do give money to St. Francis House, which is good though I don’t know how much or what it is for, I don’t know much these days except that people that run churches who identify with Christ have developed a bad vision problem. This may be a real chance to open up some of our local churches for the homeless, being you can count me soon to be there, all I know is to keep on fighting cause it is all black and white knowing God is own your side. Which can be Hell if he actually is not, my internet being on is a miracle. May God bless your work and continue blessing you Aaron. Always question authority. Unless it gets you fired from your paying job or you are independently wealthy. Go ahead anyway, the worse thing that can happen is always the ones that you think never will. Or is it just the other way around?

 I’d love to know your thoughts…..if you dare!!!  Leave a comment and let’s talk!

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“Escape is Never the Safest Path”

Oct18
2010 Leave a Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

“Escape is never the safest path” – Pearl Jam, Dissident

More often than not, the fight is not our problem.  Sometimes even the loss of the fight is not our problem. 

Sometimes our propensity to escapism is our biggest enemy, and we may not even realize it. 

Running is stupid.  Yep, you read that right.  I said running is stupid.  I’m sorry if you an ultra-fit marathon freak who runs for lunch. 

I don’t run.  But, I’ve always been a runner.  Instead of training for the Little Rock marathon, I’m actually learning how to not run.  I want to be the best dang non-runner around. 

Most of my life was spent running.  Running from things.  Escaping. 

I will quickly pull off anything I can to avoid things that I perceive to be potentially unsafe, dangerous, or that may go against my plan and desires.  I will fight, to avoid a fight.  

Lies, passive-aggressive behavior, avoidance, denial, neglect….

Drinking, drugs, gambling, sex…..excess…

I would run, and fight twice as hard to avoid facing and resolving a much simpler dilemma.  Doesn’t work.  The run is typically more damaging than the initial fight would have been.  The run takes me so far from where I want to be.  The run removes me from everything that I actually need in that time. 

It’s so often easier to screw up everything around us in an attempt to deter ourselves from what we have deemed unapproachable.  We like to run.  Divorce.  Drugs.  Prostitutes.  Porn.  Vodka.  Tunica.  Overtime.  Friends.  Family.  Fishing. 

The run kills us.  The run kills our families.  The run kills our everything.  The run is a killer.  But we run anyway.  The run brings isolation.  But we run anyway.  Have you ever really gotten to know someone or grown closer to them while you were out on a run?  Likely, no.  Most people either run alone, or they have others around them but there just isn’t a lot of interaction going on.  Mostly burning and sweating in the silence of isolation. 

My run was meth.  Oh, I’ve ran a lot of different ways…..but that was always my “go-to” run. 

Drugs, just like most runs, actually compound the need to run.  More conflict = more running. 

More running = more problems = more running.

See, I told you running was stupid. 

When I’m teaching on recovery and what it takes to completely and successfully step away from addictions, this is one of the biggest things I have to stress.   Quit running.  Quite simply, running can no longer be an option.  Whatever you ran to, you don’t run to anymore.  But even that is not enough.  You have to determine to NEVER run to ANYTHING. 

Escape is never the safest path.  Nor is it the smartest, wisest, or even easiest.   Rarely does it pay off. 

Conflict can be embraced.  It’s not a %&*#ing bad word.  It’s not.  The *#@?ing run should be a bad word.  The run is a life sucking &!%#$(*! 

We have to learn to fight well.  Yes, that can be done.  Jesus taught some of the best fighting techniques.  We like to think He is some sissy little hippie who would never dare instigate a potential burst of violence.  Wrong.  You can’t read the gospels of Jesus Christ and not see that He is a walking time-bomb.  He is a conflict driven badass.  He is a warrior. 

Some of the worst conflicts of my life, be it addiction or even my faith, have proven to be some of the most amazing things that I’ve experienced. 

Conflict.  What man intends for evil, God will ultimately use for good.  Don’t be a runner.  Running sucks. 

Make up your mind that running is simply not an option, and watch what happens in your relationships, your career, in your checking account, and most notably in the way that you love/respect/feel about yourself. 

Escape is NEVER the safest path.

(This post was first written for, and used by, Eikon Church in a series they were doing on confrontation)

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Roman Road to Recovery: Suppressing the Truth of Christ’s Gospel

Oct10
2010 Leave a Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

It’s my belief that far too often, in recovery communities, we enfeeble the truth of Christ’s gospel. 

Often, I hear people say that they do believe that God can do mind-blowing work in the life of a person…..even a person with an addiction.  But the moment we move into talking about Christ eradicating a person of their addiction, He somehow becomes powerless.  Just as they claim to be, over said addiction. 

But look at this, from Romans 1:18,19: 

“But God shows his anger from heaven against all sinful, wicked people who suppress the truth by their wickedness.  They know the truth about God because he has made it obvious to them.”

This is probably the last thing that any of us want said about us.  That we “suppress” the truth about God.  How would you like to be the person known for that?  No thanks.

Christ made it clear what His purpose, intentions, and desires were.   He stated boldly that he came to set the captives free.  What part of any of His words excludes people with addictions?!?!  None of them! 

To be honest, I think the better part of Christ’s gospel was directed at people who are bound and held back by addictions.   Yet many Christians will even shout loudly that God’s will is actually for people to have those addictions!

To be even more honest, if that were true, I would have zero desire to follow Jesus to this God.  If that were true, I really don’t think I would want anything to do with this God. 

We must stop suppressing the truth of Christ’s gospel.  Look just a few verses prior to that last one, and see what Romans 1:16,17 say about Christ’s Good News:

For I am not ashamed of this Good News about Christ. It is the power of God at work, saving everyone who believes—the Jew first and also the Gentile.  This Good News tells us how God makes us right in his sight. This is accomplished from start to finish by faith. As the Scriptures say, “It is through faith that a righteous person has life.”

We cannot be ashamed of the gospel of Christ.  This Good News is that nobody HAS to remain the same way they were when they first bumped into Christ.  We either believe it, or we don’t.  Let’s be honest, and not suppress the truth of the gospel.  Christ did His thing, to change our lives.

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Roman Road to Recovery: Road Trips Really Suck Alone

Aug24
2010 Leave a Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

Who the heck would ever take a roadtrip by themselves?  Not me.  No way.  No how. 

Whether it’s business (mandatory) or personal (recreational), there are dozens of reasons that road-trips are just not meant to be a solo performance!

This is probably the only recovery principle that is universally accepted.  Don’t go it alone!!

Though Paul was nowhere near addressing “recovery” in Romans 1:11-12, he clearly shows the importance of face-to-face interaction with other believers and like-minded individuals. 

“For I long to visit you so I can bring you some spiritual gift that will help you grow strong in the Lord.  When we get together, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours.”

He longs for it.  As do we all. 

Many times people assume that because I write about aspects of “Christian recovery” that I believe need to be reevaluated, that I think that there is no need for any kind of recovery efforts.  This is simply not true. 

You need support.  You encouragement.  You need entertainment.  You need a shoulder sometimes.  You need some seriously real friends, because sometimes you are gonna need someone to get in your face and put you in check.  I know I do.  I have to have that daily!

Road trips are a group effort.  Only weirdos and serial killers drive around alone!  :)

The road to recovery is a lonely and desolate place sometimes.  Don’t think for a minute that you will survive out there on your own.  God made you, and He made it clear that you were not created for isolation.

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Transforming a Christian Staple: The Roman Road to Recovery

Aug23
2010 2 Comments Written by Aaron Reddin

Once upon a time, in a land far, far away…..

There was this thing that people did called Sunday School.  It was a magical land of puppets and felt boards where little kiddies would all gather to learn about “God”. 

Some body’s mom who was 43 times the age of the kiddies would come in to teach the kiddies how to be good little Christian boys and girls.  The lucky kiddies all met in the same room.  The not so lucky kiddies had to separate.  Boys in one room, girls in another!! 

Oh, screw this!  I’m not a fiction writer! 

If you ever had the privilege to go to Sunday School then you probably remember learning very early about the Roman Road to Salvation.  I know, I know.  Not all Sunday School was that bad.  And if you still do Sunday School, please do it well because you are like the Native Americans of Christianity. 

So the Roman Road to Salvation, just in case you are un-Sunday Schooled, was a breakdown of Bible verses that lead you down the path to salvation.  It’s Bible verses pulled and regrouped to form a path, mostly out of Romans.  Duh.  Hence the name. 

Unarguably outdated in today’s “modern” Church, the Roman Road has been all but forgotten by most. 

The sad part is that Romans is brilliant.  OK, the Bible is brilliant, but Romans speaks so clearly to addictions, strongholds, and even what real “Christian” recovery should look like. 

It speaks of power.  The power of God.  The power of sin.  The power we have been given.  The power that lives within us. 

It speaks of life.  How to live it.  How to control it.  Where to obtain it. 

It speaks of freedom.  Freedom from the law.  Freedom from bondage.  Freedom from sin.  Freedom found only in Jesus. 

Romans basically lays out a perfect “road” if you will to recovery.  I mean real recovery.  True recovery.  The kind of recovery that doesn’t take the remainder of your life.  The kind of recovery that you’re only going to get from Jesus, and the only kind that Jesus ever really offered. 

Over the next few days, weeks, years, crap I don’t know……

I want to blog some quick thoughts that come from Romans.  Simple.  Concise.  True. 

I hope you will subscribe, or come back to read and COMMENT to contribute to these discussions.

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It Wasn’t Enough for Jesus Then, It’s Probably Not Enough Now

Jul26
2010 3 Comments Written by Aaron Reddin

Jesus makes me laugh all through the scriptures.  He makes me laugh because He sets people up and breaks out a left-hook, not because He set out to be a comedian. 

One of His favorite set-ups is finding out what a person really believes about Him, and how much they actually believe Him.  Not just in Him.

You’ve likely read/heard it:  “Who do you say that I am?”

That’s a BIG question coming from the likes of Jesus.  It’s big because Jesus was very clear, all the time, about who He was claiming to be.  He clearly declared that He was in fact God. 

He wanted to know if His people were buying into it or not.  I think He wants to know if we buy into it or not. 

But do we?  Do we really? 

There are a lot of people out there who will say that they “believe in God”, or “believe in Jesus” or what have you.  The trouble comes when we start talking about believing what He has said.  How can we claim to believe in Him, if we negate what He has said?  There is no way to  justify claiming to believe that Jesus is God, but discredit His very words!  That makes no stinkin’ sense!

The more I write, speak, teach about the correlation between Jesus and addictions, the more people will outright argue with things that Jesus Himself clearly stated.  How can this be?  How can we be “Christians” or “Christ followers” if we are going to argue His very words?!?! 

If we don’t buy what He has clearly said regarding our freedom and the fact that HE HAS GIVEN US power over sin and strongholds, then just who do we really say that He is?? 

It wasn’t enough to just follow Jesus around then, it’s not enough now.  We either believe what He has clearly communicated to us, or we don’t.   

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Christian Recovery As We Know It Needs To Be Stopped In It’s Tracks

Jul04
2010 7 Comments Written by Aaron Reddin

I don’t have all the answers. I know, you’re shocked, right?

But as Christians we are supposed to be following the only one who does have them all. Why, then, do we allow our minds, hearts, people, churches, and doctrine to be infiltrated with things that are absolutely contradictory to what He says?

You probably know where I’m going. It’s just…..where I go….

Sometimes I just have to clarify some of it though and that’s what I’m wanting to do here. You see, I fight a battle. I’ve pretty much come to realize that no matter the cost, my life is about this battle. It’s the battle for absolute freedom from addictions.

Why a battle? Well, because the Church is accepting secular ideals about addictions that contradict Jesus. Christians are selling the notion that addictions never fully go away. And other Christians are buying it. More critical is the fact that most new Christians who are battling addiction are buying it by the truckload.

I’ve posted many posts on here that show the conflict between secular recovery ideals and the very teachings of Jesus. The two simply do not mesh. This post isn’t so detailed in showing the conflict. It’s just a post that says, “Hey! We need to re-examine this thing called recovery that we’re doing in our churches”.  It scares me how much the Church and “trustworthy” well known pastors are taking this stuff in and dishing it out like candy corn at a church hayride on Halloween.

For one who is battling addictions, the point of beginning a recovery journey is probably the most critical of that journey and if people are not getting a solid foundation of Jesus and His teachings on these matters then we may as well just invite them over for some crack and vodka.  

Screw “cool”.  Screw PC.  Screw addictions.  If it takes being labeled a super hyper-charismatic radical freakshow to put people with addictions before the power of the Lord Jesus Christ, then that’s what it’s going to take.  I won’t give up. 

He set me free, and I’ll not shut up. 

One of the greatest Christian cliche’s that I’ve ever heard is this:

“Jesus got up and got out, so that you can get up and get out”.

It’s time we remember that.

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Before You Go Around Calling Yourself a Powerless Addict, Rember This….

May24
2010 Leave a Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

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Who Gives a Crap What Jesus Was?

May14
2010 Leave a Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

This post is going to be somewhat of a finger-painting. Reason being that I’m going to give you a quick update/apology and then I’m going to get into the post. Contain your excitement.

Real quick….

I’ve been mad and bitter, and I’m sorry. I’m sorry to my friends and my family.  I’ve been bitter with God and it quickly sucked the life out of me.  Thanks to a swift kick in the spiritual groin from Charlie Loften last week, I’m stepping out of my pitty party and getting my crap together. 

Bobby Hamilton at NLC once said that bitterness is like drinking poison, and then waiting for the other person to die.  I finally understand how true that is. 

So let’s move forward and not let this junk continue. 

One of the things that Charlie really got in my face about was basic.  He simply said, “Do you believe that Jesus is the answer that everyone needs?  That He alone is the hope that people need?”

Pretty simple question, right?  Either you do or you don’t. 

In that simplicity I found something much more complex.  We (me) spend entirely too much time dwelling on what Jesus was.  We look at Jesus as if He existed at one point, and we want to know what He was like then. 

We talk about Jesus as if He never got up from His death-bed.  No wonder our faith is so weak at times.  No wonder the Christian recovery community is buying into the BS that tells them they are going to have to deal with their addictions for the rest of their lives. 

If Jesus was, then we have nothing.  What is critical for us to figure out is what Jesus is. 

The more we preach, teach, write, or view Jesus from the perspective of what He was, the further we are removing ourselves and others from actually understanding who He is and what He is doing, and can do in our very lives. 

I feel like I’ve been taken back to Christian Kindergarten with this.  But, what a revelation it’s been for me. 

I don’t want to spend my time chasing what Jesus was, because if He was then He isn’t. 

You wouldn’t go spend your money on Enron stock today would you? 

I want to spend my time chasing what Jesus is, because that’s what He was and will be….

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Throwback Thursday: Proof That Jesus is a Rocker

Apr22
2010 3 Comments Written by Aaron Reddin

This is one of the greatest songs ever written, in my opinion. It is too often forgotten, just like those that the song is written about. I think Jesus would jam this song as He went looking for them. Gut check…..

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A Bottle and a Book: Why Men Should Cry

Apr07
2010 Leave a Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

Check out this amazing guest post by Kathy Gilbert Taylor about the inability of men to experience emotions…..

You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle.You have recorded each one in your book. Psalm 56:8

Societal pressures cause us to rethink the validity of things that seem so natural. When things happen to us in our early years, they tend to seem normal. What we learn at an early age often becomes internalized.

Most people don’t scold a two-year old boy when he smashes his finger or breaks a bone, but can we say the same about a boy who is ten? As boys approach adolescence, they hear this message loud and clear: big boys don’t cry.

Pain brings tears, and the older we get the more pain we experience. If boys and men are taught not to cry, it’s difficult for them to know when they can allow themselves to be vulnerable. Whom can they trust with their insecurities and sorrows?

When it is deeply buried, sorrow can evolve into anger. Unexpressed pain foments, and it becomes apparent when it has the power of a man behind it. Angry men are often intimidating and frightening, and we don’t dare tell them to “buck up” the way we tell young boys to do so.

The problem, as I see it, is that we blame the man for his anger. All we see is the road rage or the domestic violence. If only we could have seen the boy who had to hold in his tears, the boy who felt as though he had no one to talk to when his parents divorced, the boy who wanted to be exonerated when someone at church made a false accusation against him, or who wanted to talk about how much it hurt when he was rejected by his first girlfriend.

Showing anger seems so much more appropriate. By the time a boy becomes a man, he’s learned that it’s acceptable to be angry about losing a football game, because of work-related stress, or at the person who didn’t give him the right-of-way.

Once others are intimidated by this grown man’s emotions, society offers plenty of solutions, everything from anger management to psychological counseling. I don’t understand how these remedies can truly be effective if we don’t allow the individual to express a full range of emotions, and that expression includes tears. Here’s the rub: the problem is that the grown man is out of practice. He doesn’t know whom he can trust, know who will hold him while he cries, or who will accept him and his pain without using his “weakness” against him.

Catharsis is good for the soul, and what is good for the soul is good for the man. Our society needs less aggression and more empathy. God has given us all permission to cry, regardless of our age or gender. He meets us with healing in His wings. Because he records each one of our sorrows for us, we can let them go as our tears begin to fall.

Kathy Gilbert Taylor, Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, is the author of With Great Mercy, a devotional for people who experience pain. She advocates for individuals with disabilities, specializing in facial pain. Kathy also taught high school English, drama, and journalism and worked as an editor. Prior to teaching, Kathy spent several years in the Air Force, first at the Air Force Academy Chapel and then in special forces at Hurlburt Field. An ordained minister, Kathy volunteers for Prison Fellowship Ministries and has also been a Guardian ad Litem and a foster parent.

 

I strongly encourage you to check out her website at http://withgreatmercy.com, and you can find more great writings like this on her blog, HERE. 

You can find her on Twitter at @so_tweet. 

But most importantly, grab a copy of her book right here!!!

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Last I Heard Jesus Was in His Recliner. But I Read a Different Report Today.

Apr01
2010 2 Comments Written by Aaron Reddin

I’ve tried to spare you for a while now.  I’ve been trying not to blog about stuff like this because I really (really, really, really)want to get it all into my manuscript and work on getting that thing published! 

Anyway…..I’m so sick of commercial and glamorous Christianity.  I’m so sick of “professional Christianity”. 

I’m tired of pastors and preachers energetically pushing that Jesus heals marriages and that He will “heal” your finances….etc…etc….

Where is anyone being taught the Truth of the FREEDOM of the Gospel? 

Why are our churches filled with people who will gladly believe that God can restore their marriage, but the husband is stuck with that alcoholism till he dies?  Or the wife is never going to move fully past that addiction to oxy-contin….

Why are our churches filled with people who will gladly believe that all the INSANE things that God did in the Old Testament are 100% true, but when Jesus promised freedom, they believe it doesn’t apply to their seemingly inability to stop putting gram after gram of cocaine up their nose??  Why?? 

Why are our churches filled with people who will gladly believe it when they hear a testimony of God healing someone of cancer, but because of a plague of secular teachings they don’t think that their “disease” of addiction is on the list of things He can handle??

What? You know this is the kind of recliner Jesus would have!!

This weekend, as Christians, we celebrate the fact that Jesus isn’t dead.  That He is risen. 

Let’s celebrate the fact that He isn’t snoozing in his freakin’ recliner either!!  Either we believe what He says or we don’t!  He says that the same crazy stuff He was doing then, He is still doing!

Jesus said it best in Mark 12:24:  “…Your mistake is that you don’t know the Scriptures, and  you don’t know the power of God.”

Pastors, preachers, teachers……this is a major problem today!  What are people really learning in our churches?  I propose that it’s not true freedom, nor is it the power of God. 

It’s got to stop.  Recovery has to be recovered in the Church.  Yeah, it’s nasty work and it’s far from popular or glamorous.  But are we in this for easy tasks and clean hands, or because we love the people around us?

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If Addiction Renders You Speechless, There’s a Record for Your Recovery

Mar29
2010 Leave a Comment Written by Aaron Reddin

I’ve wanted to put this post together for a long stinkin’ time.  Finally, here you have it. 

I believe this is the most underrated band and album of the last decade. 

These songs are real life.  When I had only been clean for a short amount of time, these songs were more than helpful to me.  They were “instrumental” in my recovery process. 

I hope they can help you feel alive, wherever you’re at right now.  You don’t have to stay on the recovery-coaster for the rest of your life.  Assess, and rebuild. 

Self Worth:  I knew I had to learn how to love and respect myself.  I knew I was better than myself.  That may not make much sense at first glance.  But what was “me” wasn’t what I knew that I could be.  Colors helped me to gain awareness of who I was, and who I could be.

Making Amends: This is a song that I made my mother listen to a long time after I had gotten clean. I still carried all my guilt, years later. I didn’t know how to tell her what I was feeling, so I let this song do it for me.

Ready to Quit: When things were overwhelmingly hard and I thought I was ready to dive head first off the top of the recovery roller coaster:

Closure: For everyone that held me back, pushed me down, or never gave me a chance, this one was for them. Sometimes I still listen to it when I want to try and prove a point to them. Then I remember that I don’t have to. I’ve already done it!

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